About

We are the Sandwich Family. No, our last name is not Sandwich, but it is what we actually are now: a grown daughter, Kay, who moved her family to live on the same property as her mother and father, MaryRob, and Harv.

Here are the layers of our Sandwich: MaryRob is the parent/grandparent, R and B are the children/grandchildren, and the Sandwich Filling is Kay and her husband, C.

Harv, the patriarch of the brood, passed away suddenly in March of 2014. He and MaryRob were married for 50 years. He is greatly missed and our experiences losing him and learning to live without him have opened our eyes to a whole new range of topics.

The writers of this blog are Kay and MaryRob. Kay is a fundraiser with a full-time job and is a yoga enthusiast. MaryRob is a retired librarian and newspaper editor/journalist, and works part-time meeting and greeting the public at a local restaurant.

In this blog, we are going to tell our story. How we became the Sandwich Family, what it is like to live together as a multi-generational family, our successes and struggles. We are also going to talk about what we are learning regarding the issues families with older adults face every day: financial planning, health care, aging in place and privacy, just to name a few. It is our hope that other families can learn from us, in a time when caring for elder family members is so complicated  – and often stressful and political.

We can be reached at: kaysandwichfamily at outlook.com.

*While this blog is certainly intended to be a forum about the full range of our experience, we have enough to talk about without invading the privacy of our families! So, we will use initials or nicknames when we want to talk about them, unless they have given us express permission otherwise.

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2 responses to “About”

  1. Heidi @ lightlycrunchy says :

    We have lived like this in the past as well. When my husband and I were first married, we rented the bottom apartment in his grandma’s house. After 5 years, she decided to move into a retirement home with her friends, so we bought the house and moved my grandparents into her apartment. We lived like that for the next 10 years. Having my grandparents living with us when our kids were little was wonderful. Now, my grandparents are gone and we have moved again – this time to the family farm (my mother in law has moved in to a smaller house right beside it). We also own the house on the other side of the farm and my brother and his wife live in it. It’s been great to have our family so close to us.

    • live100years says :

      Thank you so much for sharing your story here! I haven’t found any other forums for talking about multi-generational living situations, so I’m really glad to hear from you. I hope this can be a place for others like us to find fellowship.
      I have been enjoying reading your blog a great deal! Look forward to more great posts.

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